articles on sex
and relationships

Overcoming the Fear of Backdoor Play

A beginner’s guide to anal.

Sex After Menopause Can Be Better Than Before

Here’s why

The Secret Link Between Friendship and Better Sex

How friends fuel desire and joy

Why Am I Turned On by Humiliation? Exploring Kink, Desire, and the Psychology Behind It

On Roman Roy and how desire evolves

What “Dying for Sex” Teaches Us About Living Fully

On the real meaning of eroticism.

Why Your Husband May Be Avoiding Intimacy—and What You Can Do

When rejection replaces affection

Why Breastfeeding Changes How Your Breasts Feel Erotically and What to Do About It

It’s more common than you think

Why You Don’t Want Sex After Babies (And How to Get It Back)

Postpartum desire loss and recovery.

Is Dryness the Problem—Or Is It Something Deeper?

Understanding arousal, communication and connection.

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