Sexual & Relational Coaching for Couples
I specialize in helping couples rebuild desire, strengthen communication, and create a sex life and relationship that feels deeply connected.
“It feels like I've gotten my marriage back. After 9 months of no sex and feeling completely disconnected, we are now talking, touching and rediscovering each other in ways we never thought possible."
"Menopause changed how my body responded to everything, and I thought desire was just gone. But you helped me find new ways to experience pleasure and reminded me that it’s never too late to feel sexy and alive."
"After having a baby, I didn’t feel like myself, let alone a sexual being. These sessions gave me permission to reconnect with my body, without pressure. I feel more grounded, more open, and more me in this new phase."
This is for you if...
- You're feeling disconnected or mismatched, both in and out of bed
- You're avoiding conversations about sex because they lead to shutdown or defensiveness
- You're wondering where the desire went—and how to get it back
- You're wanting to explore new things but unsure how to bring them up and how to get started
- You're stuck in stress, routine, or resentment
You love your partner. You want more. That’s where I come in.
Coaching with me is a space to…
Reignite desire in a way that feels natural and sustainable
Talk about sex without the tension, shutdown, or confusion
Navigate mismatched libidos and emotional distance
Rebuild erotic connection after years of routine—or months of avoidance
Explore fantasies, limits, and needs safely and honestly
You don’t need to “fix” your relationship. You just need the tools, space, and support to reconnect with what’s already there.
How we'll work together:
Sessions are 60 minutes long, online
Amount of sessions needed are determined on a case-by-case basis
I'm available for questions or support by email in between sessions
Personalized homework (erotic exercises, conversation prompts, sensory rituals)
Option to work with just one partner or both together
All sessions are confidential and tailored to your dynamic.
Hi, I’m Natassia—a certified sexologist and the founder of Wonderlust.
I help couples in long-term relationships navigate mismatched desire, emotional disconnect, and sexual conflicts with curiosity and compassion.
Whether you’re navigating parenthood, menopause or rediscovering desire after years together, this space is for you.
I’m certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), based in NYC and a graduate of Columbia University.
My work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Glamour, GQ, Goop, NBC and more.
“Working with Natassia has given us space to experiment, feel safe, and play sensually with each other. It feels deeply nourishing to be known in this way, and it has become the foundation for a stronger sexual and intimate connection.”
“For the first time in years, I actually want to have sex. Not because I feel pressured, but because I feel connected and turned on. This work helped me understand my desire in a completely new way."
"We used to avoid talking about sex because it always led to tension. Now we can talk about it openly, even playfully. That shift has changed everything.”
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Frequently Asked Questions
I work with individuals and couples navigating low desire, emotional disconnection, communication challenges, pain during sex, trauma and infidelity.
I also help navigate intimacy shifts due to life transitions, like parenthood or menopause.
No matter where you're coming from, we’ll tailor the work to your specific goals.
If there is something I am not equipped to help you with, I will refer you to a trusted practitioner.
Therapy helps you explore your past to better understand your present. Coaching focuses on where you are now and where you want to go, offering tools to move toward your future goals.
It is action- and goal-oriented, with homework and exercises in between sessions to strengthen your progress.
I use evidence-based tools and education to help you build awareness, improve communication, and create an emotional and sexual connection that feels exciting and fulfilling.
We will meet online and sessions are a mix of conversation, reflection, and education.
I’ll guide you through tools and exercises to better understand your desire, communicate more openly, and explore new ways of connecting emotionally and physically. You’ll leave with clear takeaways and things to practice between sessions.
I am also available to answer any questions or make any adjustments in between sessions by email.