Private Coaching for Women and Couples to Overcome Low Sexual Desire

I specialize in helping women and couples rebuild desire, strengthen communication, and create a sex life and relationship that feels deeply connected.

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“It feels like I've gotten my marriage back. After 9 months of no sex and feeling completely disconnected, we are now talking, touching and rediscovering each other in ways we never thought possible."

kate m.

"Menopause changed how my body responded to everything, and I thought desire was just gone. But you helped me find new ways to experience pleasure and reminded me that it’s never too late to feel sexy and alive."

jules l.

"After having a baby, I didn’t feel like myself, let alone a sexual being. These sessions gave me permission to reconnect with my body, without pressure. I feel more grounded, more open, and more me in this new phase."

hillary g.

“After our son was born 4 years ago, we had a hard time reconnecting. This course gave us the tools and insights to reconnect both emotionally and sexually.”

Breana S.

“For the first time in 15 years, we've been able to bridge that gap and enjoy sex more thanks to the strategies we learned."

Helena R.

"This course has opened my eyes in ways I couldn't have imagined. I only wish I had learned this 20 years ago.”

CINDY H.

Maybe you’re…

Avoiding conversations about sex because they lead to shutdown or defensiveness
Feeling disconnected, mismatched, or just… off
Wondering where the desire went—and how to get it back
Wanting to explore new things but unsure how to bring them up
Craving intimacy but stuck in stress, routine, or resentment

You love your partner. You want more. That’s where I come in.

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Coaching with me is a space to…

Reignite desire in a way that feels natural and sustainable

Talk about sex without the tension, shutdown, or confusion

Navigate mismatched libidos and emotional distance

Rebuild erotic connection after years of routine—or months of avoidance

Explore fantasies, limits, and needs safely and honestly

You don’t need to “fix” your relationship. You just need the tools, space, and support to reconnect with what’s already there.

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Program details

Amount of time and sessions needed are determined on a case-by-case basis

Sessions are 60 minutes long, online

Email access between sessions for questions or support

Personalized homework (erotic exercises, conversation prompts, sensory rituals)

Option to work with just one partner or both together

We meet over Zoom. All sessions are confidential and tailored to your dynamic.

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Hi, I’m Natassia—a board-certified sexologist and the founder of Wonderlust.

I help couples in long-term relationships navigate mismatched desire, emotional disconnect, and sexual conflicts with curiosity and compassion.

My work blends real-world coaching with evidence-based tools, making it easier for couples to connect without spiraling into tension or shame.

Whether you’re navigating parenthood, menopause or rediscovering desire after years together, this space is for you.

I’m certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), based in NYC and a graduate of Columbia University.

More than anything, I believe in the transformative power of pleasure as a source of confidence, connection, and joy—from the bedroom to the boardroom.

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“Working with Natassia has given us space to experiment, feel safe, and play sensually with each other. It feels deeply nourishing to be known in this way, and it has become the foundation for a stronger sexual and intimate connection.”

Julie L.

“For the first time in years, I actually want to have sex. Not because I feel pressured, but because I feel connected and turned on. This work helped me understand my desire in a completely new way."

tracy R.

"We used to avoid talking about sex because it always led to tension. Now we can talk about it openly, even playfully. That shift has changed everything.”

todd g.

“After our son was born 4 years ago, we had a hard time reconnecting. This course gave us the tools and insights to reconnect both emotionally and sexually.”

Breana S.

“For the first time in 15 years, we've been able to bridge that gap and enjoy sex more thanks to the strategies we learned."

Helena R.

"This course has opened my eyes in ways I couldn't have imagined. I only wish I had learned this 20 years ago.”

CINDY H.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What kinds of issues do you help with?

I work with individuals and couples navigating low desire, emotional disconnection, communication challenges, pain during sex, trauma and infidelity.

I also help navigate intimacy shifts due to life transitions, like parenthood or menopause.

No matter where you're coming from, we’ll tailor the work to your specific goals.

If there is something I am not equipped to help you with, I will refer you to a trusted practitioner.

What's the difference between coaching and therapy?

While therapy often explores your past, coaching is focused on the present and future.

It is action- and goal-oriented, with homework and exercises in between sessions to strengthen your progress.

I use evidence-based tools and education to help you build awareness, improve communication, and create an emotional and sexual connection that feels exciting and fulfilling.

What happens during a coaching session?

We will meet online and sessions are a mix of conversation, reflection, and education.

I’ll guide you through tools and exercises to better understand your desire, communicate more openly, and explore new ways of connecting emotionally and physically. You’ll leave with clear takeaways and things to practice between sessions.

I am also available to answer any questions or make any adjustments in between sessions by email.