Hi, I'm Natassia Miller — founder & sexologist at wonderlust.
I was born in Brazil and spent my early career working in finance after graduating from Columbia University.
But something kept tugging at me—why were so many people successful on paper, yet deeply disconnected in their relationships?
That question led me down a new path.
For the past five years, I’ve been researching what it takes to create a genuinely happy and fulfilling sex life—and I became a certified sexologist to help others do the same.


And we know that sexual satisfaction is strongly linked to marital happiness.
So why aren’t we ever taught how to have great sex or navigate desire over the long haul?
We’re fed unrealistic portrayals in media and carry messages from our upbringing that often leave us feeling ashamed or broken.
We’re rarely given the tools—or the language—to explore intimacy in a real, grounded way.
That’s why I started Wonderlust.
We launched in 2022 with our Mindful Intimacy Card Deck to help couples start honest conversations about sex.
Since then, we’ve been building a growing library of courses and resources to help people reconnect with their desire, deepen their relationships, and feel more confident in their bodies and sex lives.
I’m so happy you’re here. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between—there’s room for you at Wonderlust.
Let’s rewrite the way we experience sex, one honest conversation at a time.
Natassia & Wonderlust
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Every week sexologist Natassia Miller answers anonymous questions and offers advice to improve your sex life and relationship in our Lust in Translation newsletter.
