Sex and Relationship Coaching for Ambitious Women and Couples
Turn emotional and sexual disconnection into confident, playful intimacy—in 3 focused months, even while juggling a high‑demand career and a full life.
“Our sessions with Natassia became the foundation for a stronger sexual and intimate connection. We experiment more, feel safer with each other, and it shows in every part of our relationship.”
“For the first time in years, I want to have sex because I feel connected and turned on. This work changed how I understand my desire, communicate what I want and feel good in my skin."
"Working with Natassia superseded all expectations. She is attentive and genuinely cares, and by the end of our sessions we felt deeply reconnected and clear about how to keep nourishing our intimacy. ”
Is this you?
This work is for growth‑oriented women and couples who are used to investing in their careers and wellness—and are ready to invest in their intimate life, too.
- You feel disconnected or mismatched, in and out of bed.
- Sex has become tense, scheduled, or “another thing on the to‑do list.”
- Desire has dropped after a major shift—new baby, stress, health changes, perimenopause, or just “too much going on.”
- Conversations about sex lead to shutdown, defensiveness, or silence.
- You want to explore more—emotionally or erotically—but don’t know how to bring it up.
You love your partner. You’ve built a lot together. You just don’t want to keep living like roommates.
What We’ll Work On
Coaching with me is a structured, shame‑free space to untangle what’s really happening and build a relationship to sex and intimacy that feels exciting, honest, and sustainable.
Together, we’ll:
- Reignite desire in a way that fits your nervous system, schedule, and season of life.
- Learn to talk about sex without criticism, shutdown, or walking on eggshells.
- Navigate mismatched libidos, resentment, and emotional distance.
- Rebuild erotic connection after months (or years) of avoidance.
- Explore fantasies, limits, and needs with clarity, consent, and care.
You don’t need to “fix” yourselves. You need a framework, a guide, and a space where this part of your life gets to matter.
How It Works
1. Apply for private coaching
Complete the application form below so there’s a clear picture of your relationship, your goals, and whether this work is appropriate for your situation. If it feels aligned, you’ll be invited to a complimentary consultation call to explore next steps and discuss the package in detail.
2. Start your 3-month container
If we decide to work together, we’ll start a 3‑month private coaching container that includes eight 60‑minute sessions on Zoom, personalized exercises between calls, voice‑note or email support, and curated resources tailored to you as a couple or individual.
3. Follow a proven framework
Across our work together, you’ll move through a clear framework for rebuilding desire, improving communication, and creating a sex life and relationship that feel connected, confident, and playful again.
About Natassia
I’m Natassia Miller, a former finance professional turned certified sexologist and founder of Wonderlust.
I understand what it’s like to juggle a high‑demand career, relationships, and your own nervous system—and how easy it is for desire to be the first thing sacrificed.
I help ambitious women and couples move from sexual shutdown and emotional distance to a relationship that feels alive, honest, and deeply connected again.
I’m certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), based in New York City, and a graduate of Columbia University.
My work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Glamour, GQ, Goop, NBC and more.
This isn’t about perfection, performance, or keeping up with anyone else’s idea of “good sex.”
It’s about building an intimate life that actually fits you—and letting that support everything else you’re building in the world.
“It feels like I've gotten my marriage back. After 9 months of no sex and feeling completely disconnected, we're talking, touching and rediscovering each other in ways we never thought possible."
"Perimenopause changed how my body responded to everything, and I thought desire was gone for good. You helped me find new ways to experience pleasure and reminded me it’s never too late to feel sexy and alive."
"After having a baby, I didn’t feel like myself, let alone a sexual being. Our sessions gave me permission to reconnect with my body without pressure. I feel more grounded, more open, and more me in this new phase."
Apply for Private Coaching
Because of the depth of this work, I only take on a limited number of clients at a time. Please answer the questions below to get a clearer picture of whether this is the right space for you. If it is, you’ll be invited to a consultation call to explore next steps.