Mindful Intimacy Card Deck
Strengthen your relationship and spice things up with tastefully curated question and action prompts about love, sex and desire.
- Strengthen your communication
- Fuel desire and chemistry
- Perfect for date nights
- Prompts are gender neutral and made for all kinds of couples
- Sex therapist approved
- Exclusive artwork doubles as table art
- 138 prompts divided into 2 levels of 69 cards each
- Size: 2.75 in. H x 5.4 in. W x 5 in. D
- Weight: 1.25 lbs
What couples are saying
"My husband and I played the deck last night. I'm still beaming. We had the most amazing evening and, I never thought this possible, but I am even more in love with him today!"
Verified Buyer
“My partner and I got this to learn more about each other and have some fun. This game exceeded my expectations!! We learned more about ourselves and our relationship than I could have ever imagined."
Verified Buyer
“My partner has a hard time talking about intimacy and sex in regards to what he wants/ likes/ dislikes. These cards helped open us both up and definitely brought us closer and we learned a bunch of new things about each other.”
Verified Buyer
How to play
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"What turns you on the most about me?"
"What did you like about me when we first met?"
"What's your favorite sexual memory of us?"
"Is there a sexual fantasy that you'd like to make come true? If so, how would you like it to play out and what are our roles?"
the Story behind our CARD deck
Did you know that talking about sex leads to more desire, arousal, lubrication and orgasms?
Yet most couples have a hard time talking about it and it prevents them from having better sex and feeling closer to each other.
So I set out to build a card deck that makes it fun, easy and sexy to talk about the awkward stuff!
Over 5k couples have loved it and we've been featured in Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Goop, HuffPost (to name a few).
If you want to discover things you never thought possible and build great memories together, you'll love our Mindful Intimacy Card Deck.
- Natassia, sexologist and founder of Wonderlust
Approved by sex therapists
Sex Therapist
"As a therapist, I can say this for certain: you can do all the therapy you want, but eventually you have to talk to your partner, too. The Mindful Intimacy Deck provides the vocabulary to do just that."
Sex Therapist
"This is a wonderful deck to enhance intimacy, emotionally and sexually, with new or long-term partners. The artwork is fantastic, so erotic and inclusive. The questions offer gentle topics and fodder for deeper conversation."
Women's Intimacy Coach
"Mindful Intimacy is the card deck I recommend most often to my intimacy coaching clients. It strikes the perfect balance between playful and deep, emotional and physical."
FAQ's
It's for all kinds of couples. Prompts are non-gendered, and therefore LGBTQ+ friendly.
While we created it with longer-term couples in mind, new couples and those who are dating have shared with us that they've loved it too.
Talking about sex, after all, matters at any stage!
There are 2 levels of 69 cards each - 138 cards total.
It's the card that asks the question, not you, which makes it an easy experience for couples to talk about their relationship and sex life.
Level 1 is thoughtful and romantic to warm things up. Level 2 is seriously spicy.
Start with Level 1 and when you feel comfortable, move onto Level 2.
Keep going until you can't keep your hands off each other.
Level 1 is thoughtful and romantic. Warm things up with prompts that remind you of what drew you together.
Level 2 is spicy. Learn more about each other's desires, explore new possibilities in bed and build confidence asking for what you want.
Each level contains 69 cards each.
It helps you talk about sex in a tasteful manner. Other intimacy decks tend to have very few prompts, if any, that are centered on sex. We dedicate an entire Level of 69 cards to it.
It has the best of both worlds combining relationship and sex life prompts.
Plus, it's beautifully designed featuring artwork by Brazilian artist Nathalie Edenburg to elevate your experience and decorate the home.
Yes we do for a fee of $10-15, depending on the weight of your order.
Please estimate 1-3 weeks time for delivery.
And remember that customs fees are your responsibility, not ours.
If you have any additional questions, please e-mail us at hi@wonderlust.co
Mindful Intimacy Card Deck
Strengthen your relationship and spice things up with tastefully curated question and action prompts about love, sex and desire.
“After our son was born 4 years ago, my connection with my husband felt like it was on pause. This course gave us the tools and insights to reconnect both emotionally and sexually. I feel like we've found each other all over again, with even deeper bonds in this new phase of our life.”
Verified Buyer
"I was skeptical at first, but my wife encouraged me to give this course a try. I'm glad I did. We have different desire styles (she's the spontaneous one) and for the first time in 15 years, we've been able to bridge that gap and enjoy sex more thanks to the strategies we learned."
Verified Buyer
"At 65, this course has opened my eyes in ways I couldn't have imagined. I only wish I had learned this 40 years ago. I'm excited to put these in action with my husband as we reconnect in the bedroom."
Verified Buyer
Having a vibrant and fulfilling sex life isn't a pipe dream.
Many people experience dips in their libido, and it can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. Imagine reigniting that spark and feeling a renewed sense of passion and intimacy. This course is designed to help you do just that.
Through scientifically-backed methods and practical exercises, you'll discover the underlying causes of your low desire and learn effective strategies to enhance your sexual wellbeing.
Whether it's stress, hormonal changes, boredom or relationship dynamics, we provide personalized guidance to help you build the sex life you want.
You crave change but you don't know where to start, don't want to spend thousands on therapy or coaching, and you prefer to do this privately at your own pace.
HERE'S WHAT you'll LEARN
What’s in each module
What people are saying
"This is the sex ed I never had. I’ve been on this journey to learn more about sex and Natassia makes it very easy and approachable to understand. It's helped me explore my sexuality in a safe, positive way, boosting my confidence and connections with others. This knowledge is empowering and something everyone should learn."
Verified Buyer
"I’ve been in a high demanding role at work for a couple of years and it took a big toll on my libido. I’m single and what I love about The Art of Sexual Desire is that it normalizes my experience and has a step by step process with questions I never thought to ask myself. Plus, I’m excited to apply what I’ve learned about communication and sensual exercises with a future sexual partner!”
Verified Buyer
“After 20 years of marriage, my husband and I felt like we were in a rut. I wish I had taken this course when we got married because it would’ve saved us so much time and frustration. We’re doing the exercises to reconnect and in a short period of time it’s already been transformative for our connection and communication!”
Verified Buyer
HI, I’m Natassia Miller —sexologist and founder of Wonderlust
For the last five years, I've been researching what it takes to build a genuinely happy and fulfilling sex life and marriage.
It's a common source of struggle, after all. About 50% of American couples report being unhappy with their sex lives and 50% of marriages end in divorce.
So I founded Wonderlust in 2022 with our viral intimacy card deck that makes it easy for couples to talk about sex. Since then, we've grown to over 230K followers across social media and a live sexual wellness event series at Soho House.
We’re on the path to building a library of accessible courses for you to design the sex life and relationship you want. I'm excited to guide you on your journey!
Ready to start?
FAQ's
It's for all kinds of couples. Prompts are non-gendered, and therefore LGBTQ+ friendly.
While we created it with longer-term couples in mind, new couples and those who are dating have shared with us that they've loved it too.
Talking about sex, after all, matters at any stage!
Level 1 is thoughtful and romantic. Warm things up with prompts that remind you of what drew you together.
Level 2 is spicy. Learn more about each other's desires, explore new possibilities in bed and build confidence asking for what you want.
Each level contains 69 cards each.
It helps you talk about sex in a tasteful manner. Other intimacy decks tend to have very few prompts, if any, that are centered on sex. We dedicate an entire Level of 69 cards to it.
It has the best of both worlds combining relationship and sex life prompts.
Plus, it's beautifully designed featuring artwork by Brazilian artist Nathalie Edenburg to elevate your experience and decorate the home.
Yes we do for a fee of $10-15, depending on the weight of your order.
Please estimate 1-3 weeks time for delivery.
And remember that customs fees are your responsibility, not ours.
If you have any additional questions, please e-mail us at hi@wonderlust.co