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“After our son was born 4 years ago, our sex life has been on pause. This course gave us the tools and insights to reconnect both emotionally and sexually. Highly recommend to new parents!”
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"I was skeptical at first, but my wife encouraged me to give this course a try. I'm glad I did. We learned how to bridge the gap of our desire styles and feel more in sync thanks to the strategies we learned."
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"At 65, this course has opened my eyes in ways I couldn't have imagined. I only wish I had learned this 40 years ago! I'm excited to put these in action with my husband as we reconnect in the bedroom."
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Having a vibrant and fulfilling sex life isn't a pipe dream.
Many people experience dips in their libido, and it can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. Imagine reigniting that spark and feeling a renewed sense of passion and intimacy. This course is designed to help you do just that.
Through scientifically-backed methods and practical exercises, you'll discover the underlying causes of your low desire and learn effective strategies to enhance your sexual wellbeing.
Whether it's stress, hormonal changes, boredom or relationship dynamics, we provide personalized guidance to help you build the sex life you want.
You crave change but you don't know where to start, don't want to spend thousands on therapy or coaching, and you prefer to do this privately at your own pace.
HERE'S what you'll learn
What’s in each module
What people are saying
"This is the sex ed I never had. I’ve been on this journey to learn more about sex and Natassia makes it very easy and approachable to understand. It's helped me explore my sexuality in a safe, positive way, boosting my confidence and connections with others. This knowledge is empowering and something everyone should learn."
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"I’ve been in a high demanding role at work for a couple of years and it took a big toll on my libido. What I love about this course is that it normalizes my experience and has a step by step process with questions I never thought to ask myself. Plus, I’m excited to apply what I’ve learned about communication and sensual exercises with a future sexual partner!”
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“After 20 years of marriage, my husband and I felt like we were in a rut. I wish I had taken this course when we got married because it would’ve saved us so much time and frustration. We’re doing the exercises to reconnect and in a short period of time it’s already been transformative for our connection and communication!”
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HI, I’m Natassia Miller —sexologist and founder of Wonderlust
For the last five years, I've been researching what it takes to build a genuinely happy and fulfilling sex life and marriage.
It's a common source of struggle, after all. About 50% of American couples report being unhappy with their sex lives and 50% of marriages end in divorce.
So I founded Wonderlust in 2022 with our viral intimacy card deck that makes it easy for couples to talk about sex. Since then, we've grown to over 230K followers across social media and a live sexual wellness event series at Soho House.
We’re on the path to building a library of accessible courses for you to design the sex life and relationship you want. I'm excited to guide you on your journey!
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90 minutes of video presentation
10 in-depth chapters with scientifically-backed exercises
Bonus: 1 private 40-minute session with Natassia
Lifetime access to the course
Free course updates
FAQ's
Both men and women who experience a lack of sexual desire and want to improve their sex lives.
To keep this course scientifically accurate, it is not for trans people.
If you’re looking for medical advice, this course is not for you either. You should consult your medical provider.
Yes, it’s a great opportunity for you to learn how sexual desire works, which misconceptions you hold, and how to create change together. While you can’t force your partner to do the exercises, you will be equipped to ask them better questions and navigate this more successfully.
No. This course is for anyone who either struggles with desire or wants to learn more, regardless of their relationship status. The exercises can be done both with a sexual partner or on your own.
You can access it via your Kajabi dashboard immediately after you purchase it. It's pre-recorded and you will have lifetime access to it. You can watch it as many times as you want, from the comfort and privacy of your home.